what type of person the signs should be with

astrologyqueenn:

aries: patient. i can’t think of a better word to describe what i’m about to say. as an aries, without realizing, you are not ready to open up so fast. it could take months for your lover(s) to get anything out of you emotionally. it takes you a long time to feel comfortable confiding in anyone, because you’re cautious, which is fine. patience is key when it comes to you.

taurus: loyal. you need someone who will stick by you and choose you regardless of any circumstance. who will be your true friend when things get tough and sticky. someone who wants to be there, who wants to love you and stick by you and never wavers.

gemini: commitment. you need someone who looks at you and knows they want to be with you for a long time. who wants to grow, cherish, love every single moment with you. you don’t want someone who’s only around sometimes, you want someone who wants to be around all the time, for years to come.

cancer: reassuring. you get scared. you get scared that people are going to walk away and not choose you and leave you hanging. you need someone who, without a doubt, will always give you those words of reassurance when those thoughts pop into your head.

leo: ambitious. you need this because you tend to be such a fierce, dedicated lover. it becomes your whole world. it consumes you. you need someone that has goals and has their life ahead of them so that you can mirror this, and not become so engulfed in just being theirs. so that you can grow with them, and not just latch onto their life.

virgo: understanding. you need someone who understands when your thoughts just won’t come out right. someone who doesn’t need the words and confusion. someone who just understands your sadness without saying one single thing.

libra: fun. you need someone that takes you away from your unnecessary stress everyday, and just makes you laugh. they need to put color into your world and make you excited and come alive again. you need them to not take life so seriously, because you’re just already so used to that.

scorpio: sensitive. you need someone to come in and understand where all those inner, strong, scary emotions come from. they need to help channel them and they need to be able to hold you and not let go when things just get way too hard to handle on your own. they need to be sensitive to the fact that you’ve been through some hard things, they need to be the shoulder to cry on.

sagittarius: devoted. you need someone that loves just as hard as you do. they will devote themselves to you just like you’ve always wanted. they need to be able to combine their life into yours and move gently forward with you.

capricorn: adventurous. someone who will take you away once in a while so that you can feel free. you need the relationship to have that outgoing energy, to pump you up when you’re feeling down, and, most importantly, take you places you’ve never been before. emotionally. mentally. spiritually. in every way,

aquarius: soft. you need someone who is soft for you. who would kill to see you happy, just as you would do for them. someone who isn’t afraid to show that they are so in love and captivated by you.

pisces: intellectual. you need someone to set a spark within you mentally. someone who is easy to talk to, and who you feel comfortable talking about anything with. someone who not only can talk about your daily life with, but with the deep, scary, not so easy stuff. that’s where your real connection will come in.

magicmoon65:

wlwocsource:

Signs that you probably like girls (for young wlw and questioning wlw):

You overwhelmingly prefer spending time with girls and feel more comfortable in their presence.

You pay a lot of attention to female celebrities.

You project feelings onto male celebrities and male characters that female characters you like are in romantic relationships with.

You use gender neutral pronouns to refer to a crush.

You read LGBT works or watch LGBT works out of “curiosity”.

You think of yourself as a very invested ally but often get asked if you yourself are gay because of the magnitude of your allyship.

You get extremely uncomfortable when friends and family make homophobic remarks, as if they are personally insulting you.

You gravitate toward the out LGBT people around you.

You find yourself forcing feelings of attraction toward girls down or rationalizing those feelings with all sorts of reasons (”I don’t like girls, I’m just going through a phase” or “I’m only thinking this because no boys talk to me/no boys like me” or “I just admire her fashion” or “I just really want to be her friend”).

You feel guilty and ashamed about the feelings of attraction that you pretend don’t exist.

You flinch when people talk about the “college bisexual phase” or “the bicurious phase” (this really applies to bisexual women).

You don’t truly like male celebrities but you name a token one to appease people (this really applies to lesbians).

You cannot envision yourself in a long-term relationship with a man, you feel uncomfortable at the thought of being with one, or you feel scared about engaging in any sort of intimacy with one (this really applies to lesbians).

You think of yourself as “heteroflexible” or as “experimenting” or “curious” (this applies to bisexual women quite frequently but it also applies to lesbians).

You continually rewatch scenes of f/f romance or intimacy that you’ve seen on television or in movies.

You find yourself replacing pronouns in songs or listening to music written and sung by openly gay female artists.

You try and read f/f works out of “curiosity”.

You feel personally affronted or scared when you witness out wlw near you getting targeted by homophobia.

If you’re looking up “am I gay?” or “how do I know if I like girls” on google or on youtube, trust me: you like girls.

You feel like you have to date a boy just to along with everyone else dating a boy (this applies to lesbians quite frequently but it also applies to bisexual women).

You may be in a relationship with a boy but feel dissatisfied or find your attention settling on girls anyway (this really applies to lesbians).

You may genuinely like boys and get attracted to them which confuses you when you also get attracted to girls, and you find yourself denying that you like girls because you also like boys (this really applies to bisexual women).

-You “choose” a crush on a guy, or look around and pick someone to have a crush on (I think this mostly applies to lesbians) (most of me being aware enough was a thought-I-was-bi so it’ll probably mostly apply to lesbians)
-when male-attracted friends talk about guys or specifically their body parts being attractive you just sort of nod along
-you perfer feminine boys, thinner ones/with curves/with more delicate features
-or you have “crushes” on unattainable boys (gay, in a relationship (and when they break up you don’t like them anymore), famous, ect.)
-You get a lot of “girl crushes” or “friend crushes” on girls
-You get nervous talking to girls for no decernable reason/because the girl is hot/pretty and you assume she’d never talk to you
-You notice when girls wear attractive clothing that makes their legs/chest/arms/face look good, and are fascinated by the way girls move (specifically while dancing or doing sports)
– You get distracted from what you’re doing to look at a girl and “notice their beauty”
– you’ll stare at said girl for an extended period of time